Building Blocks – Growing Skills for Life and Friendship
This 6-week course for secondary-aged students is designed for one-on-one delivery, focusing on self-awareness, social-emotional skills, and strategies for building healthy relationships. Each session includes personal exercises, reflective discussions, and skill-building activities to help students navigate friendships, boost self-confidence, and handle social challenges effectively.
Week 1: Self-Awareness and Personal Identity
Objectives:
Explore personal identity, values, and strengths.
Develop self-awareness as a foundation for personal growth and authentic relationships.
Activities:
Personal Identity Mapping: Student creates a "Strengths and Values Map" to identify their core values and strengths, followed by reflective discussion on how these influence their relationships.
Guided Reflection: Questions on individuality, peer influence, and self-expression.
Week 2: Building Self-Confidence and Assertiveness
Objectives:
Strengthen self-confidence and practice assertiveness.
Learn to set personal boundaries and express needs clearly and respectfully.
Activities:
Confidence Practice Exercises: Role-play with the instructor, practicing ways to express needs assertively and set boundaries in different scenarios.
Self-Reflection: Journal entry on personal goals for self-confidence and setting boundaries in relationships.
Week 3: Effective Communication and Active Listening
Objectives:
Understand the importance of active listening and non-verbal cues in communication.
Practice skills for clear, respectful, and empathetic conversation.
Activities:
Active Listening Exercise: Student practices listening exercises with the instructor, learning to paraphrase and reflect emotions.
Body Language Observation: Watch short video clips (or use role-play) to identify and discuss non-verbal cues and body language in conversations.
Week 4: Conflict Resolution and Problem-Solving
Objectives:
Develop constructive approaches to handling conflicts.
Practice steps in problem-solving and decision-making for positive outcomes.
Activities:
Conflict Scenario Role-Play: Student works through a conflict scenario with the instructor, using the "S.T.A.R. Method" (Stop, Think, Act, Reflect) to practice conflict resolution steps.
Personal Reflection: Journal on a recent conflict experience, guided by questions that encourage reflection on different resolution approaches.
Week 5: Empathy and Building Positive Connections
Objectives:
Foster empathy and understanding for others in friendships and social settings.
Develop the ability to appreciate different perspectives and build trust.
Activities:
Perspective-Taking Exercise: Discuss a scenario from different viewpoints to build empathy and understanding of how others might feel.
Trust and Communication Reflection: Journal entry on the importance of trust and communication in personal relationships.
Week 6: Reflection, Goal-Setting, and Maintaining Healthy Friendships
Objectives:
Reflect on the skills learned and set personal growth goals for maintaining healthy friendships.
Identify ways to nurture positive relationships.
Activities:
Friendship Action Plan: Student creates an action plan that includes personal goals and strategies for applying learned skills in real-life relationships.
Course Reflection Discussion: Guided conversation with the instructor on the course highlights, personal takeaways, and future goals.
Assessment and Reflection
Participation: Engaging actively in 1:1 discussions and role-play activities.
Reflection: Weekly reflections and journaling on personal progress and insights gained.
Final Project: Completion of the "Friendship Action Plan" as a takeaway for applying skills beyond the course.
By the end of this course, students will have developed key skills in self-awareness, assertiveness, effective communication, conflict resolution, and empathy, equipping them to form and maintain supportive, healthy relationships.